{"id":594,"date":"2021-04-06T15:13:02","date_gmt":"2021-04-06T15:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/?p=594"},"modified":"2023-10-24T13:58:07","modified_gmt":"2023-10-24T11:58:07","slug":"ako-te-zagrlim-ne-boj-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/ako-te-zagrlim-ne-boj-se\/","title":{"rendered":"Ako te zagrlim ne boj se"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Ako te zagrlim ne boj se<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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\u201cAko te zagrlim ne boj se<\/a>\u201d naslov je predivnog istinitog romana Fulvia Ervasa, oca autisti\u010dnog dje\u010daka koji je odrastaju\u0107i grlio redom bez razlike, poznate i potpune strance, da bi izrazio svoje emocije; simpatije, po\u0161tovanja, divljenja, sve ono \u0161to sputan autizmom nije uspijevao izraziti rije\u010dima. Roditelji su dali \u0161tampati natpis \u201eAko te zagrlim ne boj se\u201d na njegove majice, kako bi svih obavijestili da se ne prepadnu iznenadnog zagrljaja, da ih njihov sin ne \u017eeli povrijedit i da su neo\u010dekivani zagrljaji njegov na\u010din komuniciranja. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Verbalno komuniciranje, iako najrasprostranjenije, zasigurno nije jedini na\u010din komunikacije. Neverbalna komunikacija, pod koju spadaju gestikuliranje, pona\u0161anje, izraz lica, ton glasa, na\u010din odjevanja i mnogi drugi, ponekad je \u010dak u\u010dinkovitija nego verbalna komunikacija.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Ako zagrlim nekoga kad pla\u010de, pru\u017eam mu utjehu. Ako pogladim psa, izra\u017eavam mu moju simpatiju. Ako zalijem biljku, odra\u017eavam brigu o njoj. I u tome se svi sla\u017eemo. Pred nas se sada postavlja pitanje: ho\u0107e li na\u0161u neverbalnu komunikaciju druga strana uvijek pravilno razumijeti? Da li smo sigurni da osoba koja pla\u010de ne\u0107e pogre\u0161no razumjeti na\u0161 zagrljaj? Jesmo li sigurni da nas pas ne\u0107e ugristi? A pogotovo, mo\u017eemo li ra\u010dunati da biljka osje\u0107a da se o njoj brinemo?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Mnogobrojna znanstvena istra\u017eivanja potvr\u0111uju da biljke osje\u0107aju okolinu u kojoj se nalaze. Biljke, iako nemaju o\u010di, vide iz kojeg smjera dolazi svjetlo i u tom se mjeru razvijaju. Ne koriste visak, ali njihovo korijenje bez gre\u0161ke raste prema zalihama vode. Zadivljuju\u0107i je primjer kapar, \u010dije tanke \u017eile probijaju zidove i rastu\u0107i prema vla\u017enoj zemlji formiraju korijenje dugo \u010dak 8 metara. (Izvor knjiga Kapar, autora Ratka Kova\u010devi\u0107a)<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Desno biljka kapar na zidu ku\u0107e, lijevo njen korjen dug 8 metara<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Biolog Goeorge David Haskell u svojoj knjizi Pjesme Stabala (The Songs of Trees)<\/a> vidi stabla kao velike poveziva\u010de u prirodi gdje su sva \u017eiva bi\u0107a i ambienti isprepleteni i me\u0111usobno povezani. Ta umre\u017eenost pru\u017ea nama ljudima mogu\u0107nost da u toj korelaciji razvijemo mre\u017eu \u017eivota jo\u0161 inteligentiju, produktivniju, rezilijentniju i kreativniju.
Zna\u010di li to da se sada trebamo zabriniti? Ako obre\u017eem stablo masline, ho\u0107e li je boljeti? Ako pojedem maslinu, ho\u0107e li ona plakati? Naravno da ne!
Umjesto toga, svjesnost da su stabla \u017eiva bi\u0107a poma\u017ee nam tretirati ih sa odgovaraju\u0107om pa\u017enjom i po\u0161tovanjem koje zaslu\u017euju. Maslina pogotovo. Po Sofoklu, \u201establo koje hrani djecu\u201d, od pamtivjeka nas je ne samo hranila, nego i lije\u010dila i davala nam svjetlo. Brinuti o njoj je kao brinuti o majci, tihoj koja ne zove i ne tra\u017ei ni\u0161ta, a daje sve \u0161to ima. I zato, maslino moja, ako te zagrlim ne boj se.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Da, \u017eelim primati e-po\u0161tu od Rodne Maslinade<\/a><\/h3>

Slat \u0107emo vam obavijesti o na\u0161im ponudama i najnovije \u010dlanke direktno na va\u0161u email adresu.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ako te zagrlim ne boj se \u201cAko te zagrlim ne boj se\u201d naslov je predivnog istinitog romana Fulvia Ervasa, oca autisti\u010dnog dje\u010daka koji je odrastaju\u0107i grlio redom bez razlike, poznate i potpune strance, da bi izrazio svoje emocije; simpatije, po\u0161tovanja, divljenja, sve ono \u0161to sputan autizmom nije uspijevao izraziti rije\u010dima. Roditelji su dali \u0161tampati natpis […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":603,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[35,31,79,32,34,33],"class_list":["post-594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-u-masliniku","tag-ako-te-zagrlim","tag-grlit-stablo","tag-harmonija-s-prirodom","tag-maslina","tag-neverbalna-komunikacija","tag-stablo-osjeca"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/rodnamaslinada.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/sculpture.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=594"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1313,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/594\/revisions\/1313"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=594"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rodnamaslinada.com\/hr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}